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Book Review – “The Keys” by Sharon Quirt and Denise Marek

Check Out My Book Review – “The Keys”

I visited Sharon Quirt at her home just outside Toronto, Canada last month and was amazed at the hospitality I received while in her care.  We’re working on a particular project which I hope will eventuate soon, and spent several days brainstorming in that lovely part of the world.

As we’re both authors, we did what authors do…we exchanged books as parting gifts.

On the 30 hour journey back to Brisbane, Australia (via Auckland, New Zealand and then Melbourne, Australia) I was able to read a good portion of her book, The Keys.  After finishing it back home, I decided to write this review.

The Keys was published in 2009 and distributed by HayHouse Publishing, which is owned by Louise Hay, and has sold over 20,000 copies in five countries.  It’s been printed in a number of languages including Chinese, German, Spanish and Dutch.  The English hardback version is 169 pages in length.

The subtitle of the book is “Open the Door to True Empowerment and Infinite Possibilities.”  The forward is by Dr Darren R. Weissman, author of “The Power of Infinite Love and Gratitude.”

The four keys are:

  • Key of Awareness
  • Key of Acceptance
  • Key of Forgiveness
  • Key of Freedom
Each key represents a particular step in a four-part process of personal development.

The first chapter, The Key of Awareness describes how each of us must become aware of our own individual ego.  The chapter subtitle is, “Use The Key Of Awareness To Free Yourself From Ego’s Control”

It teaches that we must identify those aspects of ourselves which hold us back.  Your negative ego is that part of your inner psyche which always tries to interfere with your happiness.  It could be jealousy, worry, stress, anger or any other debilitating belief.

The Key of Awareness allows you to identify those aspects of yourself which do not serve you and teaches you how to release them out of your experience.  Alternatively you use the same Key of Awareness to focus on and develop those positive aspects of your ego which allow you to grow and bloom to your fullest potential.

The Key of Acceptance unlocks the next lock.  The chapter subtitle is “Use the key Of Acceptance To Release Negative Judgement”

This part of the process requires you to seek out those parts of your ego and personal history which contribute to unhappiness and the cumbersome ideas of how we should look, feel and think compared to others.

The lessons focus on accepting who you are.  You may not like the person you are right now, but that is what change and personal development is all about.

Before you can truly change, you must accept, because often your growth is restricted by your negative beliefs about yourself!

The third key is Forgiveness. The chapter subtitle is “Use The Key Of Forgiveness To Free Yourself From The Past.”  You might read between the lines with this statement and see the lesson of letting past trauma go…

First you must forgive yourself.  Without this step it’s difficult to achieve any real mental and spiritual cleansing.  You might blame yourself for a lifetime of mistakes or worse, you stay focused on that one BIG mistake which cost you everything.  The reality is; move on!  There is no sense beating yourself up about the past…let it go…

The true lesson is releasing your pent up anger and giving up any grudges you might have carried for many years.

So what if you had challenges in the past.  We all have so no need to keep your own personal misery light burning!  Let it go…

Key number four is Freedom!

When you are free from the effects of ego and can accept who you are with all aspects of the past forgiven, you are free to chase your dreams!

This last step is all about reaching for the stars and teaches you that you can do or be anything you want.  Just do it.  You’re free to change careers or move to another country or write a book, or whatever it is that you always really wanted to do.

Many of us don’t pursue our dreams because of negative ego, low self-esteem, or living in the past.  In each of these situations we feel frightened to do anything to change as all change represents an unknown.

Those of us who have moved across the planet, or invested every extra minute writing and publishing a book, know the power of exploring and conquering the unknown.

We’ve also felt that special feeling of gratification.  We’ve done something most people will never do.

That’s being free!

If you would like a book on personal development that is very easy to read and a great working tool, find a copy of The Keys and buy it!

Thanks again go out to Sharon Quirt for her great book and brilliant hospitality!

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What is Preality? Can You Really Change Your Future?

Can You Have an Effect on Your Future?

I’ve coined the word “Preality”, and used it in my book – Reading Between the Lines, The Hidden Power of Language – as a noun to define what reality is before it becomes real.  I’m probably not the first person to use this word, but I’ve never come across it before…

In trying to describe this bizarre concept of what reality is before it becomes real to us, I had to explore and test some pretty far out concepts such as idealism and quantum uncertainty.  This idea is of course entirely theoretical, but is based on solid research conducted by people much smarter than myself.

  • So what is reality before it becomes real?
  • What does the future hold for each of us?
  • And can we have an effect on that future by learning how to manipulate preality before it becomes reality?

This discussion has been taking place for years amongst esoteric mystery schools, philosophy and science.  Idealism versus materialism is the philosophical debate, God versus the individual is the esoteric debate and evolution versus chance is the scientific debate.

Can you have an effect on your future reality?

In testing some of these ideas during the past 5 years, I am a believer that we can, and indeed do so every minute of every day.

Over the past few months I’ve encountered a series of challenges in many different aspects of my life, while  for the 12-18 months prior, my world was awash in ease and

Everything just seemed to go my way, and if it didn’t, the challenges were quite minor.

I teach in my book how expectation does in fact have an effect on particles as proven by numerous studies on quantum mechanics.

When times are good, it’s easy to expect things to be good.

However I also teach that times cannot always be good.  Uncertainty and entropy have a place in our universe and these concepts cannot be avoided.  It is how we deal with these unpredictable circumstances which declare to the world what type of person we are.

And I’ll be brutally honest with you…my coping skills have been tested to their upper limit!!!

My expectation of preality started to become affected by the recurring challenges, so more challenges began to show themselves.  I was a product of my own research!

I had fallen off the path of focusing on creating a preferred preality and began instead to expect the preality of challenge and stress.

My own studies during the past 5 years were being borne out by my experience of life….it’s been quite interesting to watch from my Objective Observer point of  view, which is the primary goal we all should be striving to achieve, as I teach in my book.

Despite the fact that I knew what was happening, I seemed powerless to stop the waves of growing challenges.  So it’s time to now step in and start to take control of how I use preality.

Basically preality is your intention + your expectations + the potential decisions and actions you take on a moment by moment basis.

These all combine to ‘collapse the quantum wave’ of infinite possibilities into your unique experience of reality.

My primary goals are still the same, but my focus is now shifted more onto the specific outcomes I want to occur.  I’m now refocusing my intentions on exactly what I can control.

Yes, uncertainty will always be a part of the equation of life as well, and although it seems difficult during these storms of life, the clouds do hold a silver lining for those who have the courage to face them.

So using preality in your life is not difficult but does take continuous and critical mental effort on your part.  The instant you feel out of control you’ve lost the battle with chaos.

Even in the midst of the worst crap happening in your life, you can still affect your experience of that crappy situation – you make can it better or worse simply by using your intention and expectation.  I’ve proved this to be true in my life…

Now it’s up to you!

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